Sitter Guidelines for Sitting For A Reading

by **Mystifi** Wed Sep 18, 2024 2:01 pm

How to approach and conduct a reading with the Sitter (person sitting for the read) in mind.

What to Expect ~ The Do's

Firstly, remember to relax your energy in the best way you can, whether its via meditating or just breathing to relax.
Have a couple of sips of water handy so you can recenter your energy after the reader has connnected.
Allow the reader who is connecting permission to connect to your energy, if you want to be read.
Don't come in to the circle expecting a reading. Spirit world draw near when the time is right, spirit will be around to connect.
Don't anticipate the outome of a reading as its always left open ended for the sitter to decide what to do with the information, as you will.
Ask yourself, do I really need this reading? Or can I just come in and watch and just be a part of the circle that raise the vibration of spirit to join us ready for a connecting?
Give answers that keep the flow going through the reader. A good reader will always come back to you to ask if you can take the information being given at the time of the link.
Don't give further information away or chat colliquially during the reading. Keep the flow abreast with giving very little information away. Some readers work best with knowing next to nothing about you. Its down to you to figure out and pin point the connection coming in from the Communicator and if it doesn't fit in to your life right now leave it with the contents of the link and take what you can.

The Don'ts

Don't assume that reader will be around to give you a reading. Come, be a part of the circle and raise the energy first so that your loved ones will be able to draw near and connect. Be patient, if its not your turn tonight to receive a message, just be patient and focused. Your time will come in the future, if not before.

Don't feed the reader but give back feedback at the end, and or have questions ready to ask during or after the reading. If its a general reading that you are after, keep an open mind to as to not halt the flow of the reading itself.

Don't be needy; If you've had a reading already from one of our team, please be patient and do not ask for another reading so soon, after the last one. The readings are left open ended for you to deal with the information given during the link, so if you ask for too many readings at once, the messages will still be the same throughout, until you sit again. Try not to request too often for a reading.